CELEBRATING OTHERS

Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn (Romans 12:15).

I remember the first time I saw another author get what I wanted—and not just what I desired, but what I felt entitled to receive. I’d worked for years to get a book published, and here was yet another newcomer, sweeping in under me and claiming the prize. 

At this moment, I felt heavy—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I asked God, ‘Why them and not me?’ Can you relate?

Over the years, God has done incredible work in my life. I’ve realized that another person’s victory is not my loss. During seasons of pain, disappointment, and longing, this can be difficult. We are tempted to complain, compare, and give up—but Scripture calls us to rejoice with others, period. That bold stance is a holy posture of faith and surrender, a declaration that God knows what He’s doing, even when we don’t. 

If you’re struggling to celebrate others today—whether out of jealousy, grief, or weariness, or if never-ending fatigue, chronic illness and pain, swirling anxious thoughts, or depression cloud your mind—I want to encourage you with two truths.

1. Her victory is not your loss
2. Celebrating others is holy and Godly

HER VICTORY IS NOT YOUR LOSS

When God blesses someone else, it does not mean He has forgotten you or withheld His favor. God is generous to all—and His timing is perfect:

The LORD will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail (Isaiah 58:11).

Comparing ourselves to others only breeds resentment, bitterness, and shame. Instead, trust that God’s plan for your life is better than you could ask, think, or imagine. He’s never late, but always on time. 

CELEBRATING OTHERS IS HOLY

Learning to celebrate others is more than a random act of kindness; it fulfills God’s command in Philippians 2:4: Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

Choosing to celebrate others’ victories (even when it’s hard!) mirrors God’s love, faithfulness, and generosity. It creates a sense of fellowship and acknowledges God’s goodness. Remember, their success is not your failure, and it does not diminish the hard work you’ve put in. 

As an act of obedience, flip the script and choose to celebrate others today. You might be surprised by the joy that wells up when you intentionally rejoice. 

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION

• When has it been difficult for you to celebrate someone else’s victory? What feelings came up? Journal these thoughts in a prayer to God.
• How can you change your perspective to see others’ successes as opportunities for gratitude, learning, or inspiration?
• In what ways can celebrating others serve as an act of obedience or worship?

PRAYER

Dear God, thank You for the blessings You give me and those around me. When I’m tempted to compare myself or become jealous of others’ success, remind me that their victories are not my losses. Grant me holy intentions and an open heart so I can please You by celebrating others. Teach me to look to You, trust Your timing, and show love to those around me. Amen.